Sunday, August 26, 2018

RIP John McCain

“So live your life that the fear of death can never enter your heart. Trouble no one about their religion; respect others in their view, and demand that they respect yours. Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life. Seek to make your life long and its purpose in the service of your people. Prepare a noble death song for the day when you go over the great divide. Always give a word or a sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend, even a stranger, when in a lonely place. Show respect to all people and grovel to none. When you arise in the morning give thanks for the food and the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies only in yourself. Abuse no one and no thing, for abuse turns the wise ones to fools and robs the spirit of vision. When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.” 

John Sidney McCain III 
(August 29, 1936 – August 25, 2018).

Friday, August 24, 2018

Gardens By The Bay - 2018

It has been quite some time since we last went there.

One of Singapore's most world-class attractions, GBTB is really something to marvel, appreciate and be proud at as a Singaporean.

This time around we went to both domes, the Flower Dome and the Cloud Forest.

The Cloud Forest never fails to amaze me, with the cascading waterfall and the cold misty forest appeal.

There was a Peranakan theme in the Flower Dome, but I always found it not very exciting.

Still definitely something to appreciate!





















Saturday, August 18, 2018

One Busy Week

What a busy week it has been.

Had no time to post anything on Facebook.

Had no time to post anything on Instagram.

Had no time to post anything on LinkedIn.

Had no time to blog.

Until today.

My first blog post all week, on the rest day of Saturday.

I love the weekends.

I love living in my new home.

Right by the sea.

The sea breeze always in my face.

Takes the stress away.

The kids love it.

The wifey seems happy.

It is also better for my health.

Whenever I feel sick, the winds from the sea seem to blow the sickness away.

I just cross the road and I'm running at the ECP.

By the sea.

Sometimes I wished I didn't have to work anymore.

But work pays the bills.

Work increases my investing AUM.

Work keeps me busy.

Work diverts me from silly thoughts.

Work makes me feel useful.

Work makes me appreciate my colleagues.

I want to achieve financial freedom at some point.

Hopefully in the form of passive income from my investments.

A monthly stipend to cover what I earn every month.

Then I would have achieved financial independence.

Towards a better life.

Saturday, August 11, 2018

Fatherhood Reflections LII - A Perfect Day Out

Yesterday was a Friday and the day after National Day. I took the chance to take the day off and bring the kids out on my own.

The day started bright and early with a trip to my favourite eating place - the coffee shop beside Siglap Centre. We shared a plate of Ampang Yong Tau Foo while both also enjoyed two eggs each. It was nice to just eat something simple on a weekday morning.

Thereafter we decided to move on to our first of three locations. The National Library. We came here really early and I parked in the basement. I kept telling them this was the largest library in Singapore, especially when the boy thought we were referring to the Marine Parade library. I was rather surprised in that the library's B1 was where all the children's books were. Then we walked up escalator by escalator up the different floors exploring the building. When we reached the fifth floor, I brought them into the study area to let them see all the teenagers studying there in the midst of those books and how quiet they were. What a sight to behold for them to see so many people, yet such a quiet setting.

After that we proceeded on to the National Museum of Singapore. The car park was full, so we had to park opposite at the YMCA instead. Even though the three of us had been there together before several years ago, it was still an interesting place to visit any time of the year. In fact I was glad that they didn't remember as much of the details of the previous visit and found this current visit very interesting. It started of with a forest adventure theme where we walked down a spiral slope simulating a tropical forest with tropical animals and at the bottom we could lie down and gaze at above which was a magical projection of floral patterns. Very nice. Then it was on to the History of Singapore, where a big part of where I came in was the segment about the Japanese Occupation. I think I was very informative and the kids kept asking all sorts of questions about the war. We also sat down to watch the touching moment when Lee Kuan Yew was live on TV crying after we got booted out of the Malaysian Federation. I love watching that. Then there were two separate exhibitions, one of war time in Singapore, and one of our playgrounds in Singapore.

The whole immersive experience was free for Singapore citizens. So nice to have :)

The last and final planned stop was the ArtScience Museum at Marina Bay Sands. There was a very long queue and a huge throng of post National Day crowd vibes. After queuing for half an hour for tickets, I got tickets for two exhibitions:
(1) Marvel Studios: 10 Years of Heroes
(2) Wind Walkers: Theo Jansen's Strandbeests
thankfully it was a Friday and they had this kids-enter-for-free deal. So I actually paid only $27 for everything. My big issue was that the Marvel exhibition was such a waste of money. It was so light on props and the whole trail was so short. Definitely would not have been worth the full entrance fee! The Wind walkers one was slightly more interesting, but only slightly. And after a while it got boring. Maybe I can't appreciate it as much.

All in all it was still a very fun experience but by this time, both the kids were very visably tired. I suggested that we get out of there and go have McDonalds at Siglap Centre (again!) and they both enthusiastically agreed.

So there we went for a good ol' Happy meal to end our tiring day.

We had the longest evening naps ever when we got home.

Days like this I really felt so genuinely happy.

It might be the norm some day but I definitely can get used to it.

Thursday, August 02, 2018

New Kicks

Bought these at the Decathlon outlet in Bedok.

Probably won't use them much, but they will serve me well when I play with the kids.



Wednesday, August 01, 2018

Thoughts

Thought of going for a run tonight, but ultimately I gave in to my own laziness and tiredness and decided to take my bath instead.

As I always do.

I'm clean now, so all the thoughts about exercise have just gone out the window.

I'm feeling very out of sorts lately.

On top of that my health does not seem so good.

Can't really pen down nor pinpoint exactly how I'm feeling, but it really is causing me grey hairs.

Something is eating me.

I really wish things could have been better and less complicated.

Maybe I think too much.

I live in two worlds right now.

One is flying great and the other is utterly bad.

When will this all end?

Should I decide my own fate and write my own story?

Will Man United win the EPL next season?

Such difficult questions to answer.

I want to be happy.